Forced Abortions in United States

Unwanted Abortions And Other Risks And Human Rights Abuses

Why it is Un-Choice ?

Because :
- 64 percent of women said that they committed their abortions under pressure.
- 79% weren't told of available alternatives for abortion.
- Force to abort can increase violence rates.
- Abortion clinics fail to detect any coercion.
- Suicide rates increase 6 times more after abortion.
- Most felt rushed or not sure, yet 67% weren’t advised.
- 84% weren’t sufficiently informed about the risks of abortion before abortion !
- Murdering is the main killer of pregnant women.
- Death rates increaase 4 times more after abortion.
- 65% of women suffer healthy problems after abortion, such as trauma abortion.

Many Abortion Committed Under Pressure !

Many of the abortions are coerced and unwanted ! and many of them are forced, sometimes violently. Increasing pressure to abort may come from close people to the pregnant, such as: husband, parents, doctors, partners, employers, abortion businesses which profit from these abortion financially, landlords, family and friends sometimes! They may be negligent telling young or vulnerable individuals or couples about available alternatives. They may provide fake information as facts. They may threaten or blackmail!
Those threats mustn't be ignored. Coercion may lead to violence. This report shows stories of women have been beaten because they resist abortion, abused and murdered! Some of them were injected forcibly with drugs, or given some abortifacient-medicines secretly to cause a miscarriage ! Others were victims of hitmen were hired to endanger the baby or kill him, or maybe kill both mother and the baby !
Sometimes, The threats may involve blackmailing or loss of home or job, or maybe exploiting those who having difficulties in their lives. A pregnant employee was threatened by her employer and he told her if she didn't abort her pregnancy he will push her down the stair! Another case, a maternity-shop retailer kicked all pregnant employees who were working in this shop! Another story shows the real meaning of exploitation, a homeless woman was rejected by the shelter until she abort her pregnancy. Often, this kind of pressures come from everywhere and it may increase.

Coerced Choice .. Taking Pregnant Women To Abortion Clinics To Ensure They Keep Appointment

A former security guard who was working in abortion clinic said "Before the Massachusetts legislature that women were routinely threatened by their boyfriends or husbands who took them to the clinics to ensure that they processed their scheduled abortions" Many women are also pressured by clinic staff financially rewarded for selling abortions.

Forced Choice .. Blackmailing Can Escalate to Violence or Murdering - The Main Killer of Pregnant Women

Many pregnant women have been murdered by their partners to abort their pregnancies. Simply, pregnant women place themselves at higher risk of being attacked. Murdering is the leading cause of death among pregnant women. Women already know this facts and they are aware of these risks. 92% of women surveyed list domestic violence and assault as the women's issue that's of highest concern to them.

Uniformed Non-Choice .. "When I Found Out About The Risks of Abortion, I Can't Tell You How Betrayed I Felt"

- 54% were uncertain about their decision, in addition to 67% weren't advised before they abort !
- 84% weren't advised very well about the risks of the abortion. 79% weren't told or deceived about available alternatives for abortion.
- Many given fake information by experts about fetus development, abortion risks or alternatives.
- Many were denied essential personal, family, societal or economic support.
Unsafe Choice .. Americans concerned about coercion and risks; Support research and screening
Almost half of the voters believe that coerced abortion is common. They believe that negative effects are more common than generally reported.
They'll support candidates who advocate legislation holding abortionists liable for failing to screen for evidence of coercion, Nearly 80% of abortions process in non-hospital facilities, ill-equipped for emergency care.
- 31% had health complications after abortion.
- 65% higher risk of clinical depression,
- 65% suffer multiple symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.
- 10% have immediate complications, some of those complications are life-threatening.
- 3.5X higher risk of death from all causes.
- Suicide rates increase 6 times more for women who committed abortion.

Coerced Abortion in America [Special Report]

Many committed abortions processed by force, coercion ! many of them are unwanted abortions !
From forced advices or giving fake information about the fetus to unfair dealing with pregnant women in their jobs or in their houses !
Pregnancy or abortion-related or even murdering are the main killer of pregnant women, abortion is dangerous for both women and children !

After abortion, females will be suffering many symptoms of trauma, and death rates increase 4 times more ! and in the first year after abortion suicide rates increase 6 times more !
Abortion is endangering, maiming and killing women too :

- Because she refused abortion, her husband jumped on her stomach until their baby died !
- A young girl threatened with gun by her mother and pushed into an abortion clinic !
- Outside a parking garage, a doctor shouted: "I'm giving you an abortion!" and he injected his child's mother with an abortifacient medicine.
- A school adviser humiliated a young student, and sent her to the abortion clinic !
- A homeless woman was rejected by the shelter and she was told that she have to abort her pregnancy if she want to be in this shelter !
- A 13-year-old was returned to her molester after he took her
in for a cover-up abortion .
- A waitress was kicked from her work-place because she refused aborting her child !

The report which we will put here, will be put in parts due to its length, and in the last part we will tell you about the sources of this report ! when you finish reading this report you will be really shocked because of the facts which you read !
This report contains :
1- RELIABLE STATISTICS ABOUT ABORTION IN UNITED STATES.
2- WHAT ARE THE FORMS WHICH COERCION MAY TAKE ?
3- TEENS AT RISK.
4- HOW CAN COERCION LEAD TO VIOLENCE ?
5- HOW DOES VIOLENCE LEAD TO MURDERING ?
6- PORTRAITS OF COERCION.

Abortion Leads To Suicide in Men !

When it comes to suicide and abortion, you will not find many studuies examined the impact of abortion on men. The advisers who work with men after abortion say that males have reported large number of problems in their lives, and those problems were a direct result of their abortion experience.

These problems include many things such as : broken relationships, being weak sexually, maybe become addicted to drugs, risk-taking and suicidal behavior, increasing of feelings of sadness over time, feeling guilty and helplessness, and also depression, and being easy to be provocated, in addition to feeling of manhood lose !

Same with females, the relation between abortion and suicide may be unnoticed except in few cases. An article published on 1992 in Linacre Quarterly talked about 18 years old man who commited a suicide after 90 days of his father death.

According to this article, this man was despondent because of his girlfriend's abortion. He told one of his friends that the baby had been conceived the day his father died and he planned to name the child after his father.

Another story of suicide because of abortion, a 44 years old man killed himself in front of a planned parenthood abortion business in Overland Park, KS, in 2002. The Telegraph Observer newspaper said that he published an obituary for his aborted child in a community newspaper, saying :
"Zachary Duncan Draper was beautiful as his mother, loved by God and others. My little baby boy didn't make it to his Daddy's arms. I never got to hold and kiss him, tell him stories or read him rhymes. I love you Zachary and look forward to seeing you in heaven."

There's a huge need for more studies, counseling and help for those men who are affected by abortion as well as for women. As Vicky Thorn of the National Office for Post-Abortion Reconciliation and Healing has pointed out, helping men to find healing after abortion still as beginnings, as it was for women few years ago. But as many as stories come to light, this will help drive reasearch and make others realize the importance of the huge need for healing and help.

Males and Coerced Abortion

Males don't have decission when it comes to abortion, maybe they have little chance to help their partners and unborn children. Males who don't want abortion may be froced to be silenced, left out of the descussion ! or maybe they would be forced to accept the abortion along with their partners .

A study says that many abortions are undesirable or coerced. Medical Science Monitor published a survey of women who had abortions, they found that more than 63% of women in Uniter States were forced to abort their pregnancies !

Sometimes, the female's male partner force her to abort her pregnancy. But the results of an online poll, published in Journal of Pregnancy, it says that more than 45% of females who processed an abortion they processed it late and 31% of females who did it early, they do it under pressure by someone else other than their partner.

an article were published recently on LifeSiteNews about a couple from Hoduras were living Canada. The author wrote :

"The man’s girlfriend was pregnant and was living in a woman's shelter. These places are often run by the hardest core of radical feminists, and they had arranged for her to have an abortion (immigrant/refugee women, many of whom don't speak English, are often told by social workers that they will be deported if they have a child, that their child is "illegal").

This poor man, who was in Canada having fled Honduras during one of their political difficulties and who could not risk being sent back, asked me, begged me, to tell him what he could do to save his child's life and get his girlfriend some other kind of help. I was forced to tell him that in Canada, he had no legal rights whatever and if he tried to intervene to save his child, he could be arrested and probably deported."

This story prove that those couple were going to be forced to kill there child, they were going to lose their child because of manipulation, deception, pressure and even threts ! by abortion clinic workers, doctors, nurses, social workers or others who believe that the couple should not have their child !

Melinda Tankard Reist [ journalist and women's right advocate ] has said that giving wrong information or hiding information about the development of the embryo, the pregnant also should be told about the risks of the abortion and how it may affect her life ! Even United Nations says that abortion under pressure is a human rights abuse.

It's not fair to force individuals or couple to kill their child ! This is an obvious human rights abuse ! It's killing of an innocent soul !

The Relationship Between Breast Cancer & Abortion !

Georgette Forney and Janet Morana, co-founders of Silent No More Awareness Campaign, on 22th May, they brought out the following report which took a place in China, the following report show the relationship between Breast-Cancer and abortion :
Mrs. Marona and Mrs. Froney said: "This is a perfect time for a study that finds an abortion-breast cancer link to come out of Chind, while the world's attention is still focused on the fate of foreced abortion protester Chen Guancheng, perhaps it's time for an honest assessment of how this common surgical procedure - sold to American women and forced on unwilling Chinese women - is actually hurting all women"

the report published in the Asian Pacific Journal of Breast Cancer Prevention concluded with that "compared with women who had no history of induced abortion, women with a previous induced abortion had a significant increased risk of breast cancer" the risk of breast cancer increases directly with the age of the female ! Take a look at the full report here .


These results were expected .


"Medical professionals in the pro-life community in the United States have recognized the abortion - breast cancer link for decades, but our ‘pro-choice‘ culture can't hear a bad word spoken about abortion, from China, where abortion is a tool of repressive government, we can learn the truth, abortion hurts women in so many ways, and one of those ways is that it increases the risk of breast cancer which kills more than 40000 women every year in United States alone"


"Abortionists should be required by law to share this vital information with the women who want to abort their pregnancies"


Since the foundation of Silent No More Awareness Campaign in 2003, more than 4,500 males and females shared their stories publicly at more than 800 gatherings in more than 45 states and 10 countries where more than 100,000 attendees have found out the truth about abortion's negative effects. More than 10,000 people in 57 countries are to registered to be Silent No More. Explain the negative effects of abortion and help those who suffer from abortion effects are the the two main goals for this campaign.


You can find out more about them by visiting their website SilentNoMoreAwareness.org

Do You Need Parenting Classes?

Did you found out lately that you are pregnant? If you did, Congratulations! Being a mother is something that many women live for. Although being a mother is nice, but as when as parents find out that they are going to have a baby soon, many questions will show up, specially for first time parents, and surly they don't have any answers for it. Because of this, many mothers who have their first pregnancy decide to take parenting classes, but the real questions is : Do you need parenting classes?

When it comes to deciding if you need parenting classes, to get ready for growing up your new baby, many parents are not sure about it. If you are going to be a mother soon, you need to find out more about advantages and disadvantages of parenting classes. The following lines could help you to make the best decision for you.


You will find unlimited advantages of taking for taking parenting classes. Even if you worked as a babysitter in the past, parenting is much different. when you become a mother, you will be responsible for your child safety. being a mother is very difficult for first time, like everything else in the world, but in pregnancy case you can't change your mind by aborting your pregnancy, abortion is un-moral, because it is just a murdering crime, you have to make any necessary decisions including parenting classes to prepare for your new child.


The best advantage of taking parenting class before having your first child, is the advices and information that you will be learning it there. Parenting classes will answer all your questions about being a mother. In parenting classes you will learn the basics things of dealing with your child, such as: Changing diaper, laying your child down for a nap, and also how to feed them in a healthy way. Many parenting classes will help you in learning, you will get a baby doll and you have to deal with it as if it is your own child.


Communicate with people who will be parents soon is one of the best advantages of parenting classes. You will be surprised for how popular parenting classes are. Wherever you live, in a small town or in a big city, you will find that parenting classes will have a section for first-time-parents. It is not necessary to think about this right now, you will have a great opportunity to meet new people and make new friends, new friends who will be parents soon as you.


Parenting classes fees are very low, the fees will depend on the type of the parenting classes which you are planning to take, it will often cost you less than one hundred dollars. You may also find free of charge parenting classes, this type of classes usually follows a non-profit organizations.


As everything else, parenting classes have got advantages and disadvantages, one of those disadvantages is that parenting classes have many meetings and classes in short time, at most two three months. You will need to attend all those classes and meetings so you can get as much information as possible. Getting ready for having a child, can make you busy all the time. For that reasons many women don't take parenting classes.


Finally, it is your decision to take parenting classes or not, first thing you have to do is to check yourself, do you really need them? 87% of first-time-mothers really need parenting classes, because they don't have previous experience, and my advice for them, take one, it will teach you important things you will need to deal with your new child.

How To Be Healthy During Your Pregnancy ?

Beginning your own having a wholesome nicely well balanced diet plan is the greatest point you need to do on your own as well as your infant. By doing this, you will only have to help to make several changes on your being pregnant.
I will add pictures show the amount of minerals and nutrition in all food types.

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During your first three months

If you discover this difficult to keep the well balanced diet plan on your first trimester, you are able to be assured that you are not by yourself. Because of a sick stomach, a few ladies may consume all the time as well as obtain lots of pounds along the way. many other ladies possess difficulty obtaining meals lower as well as consequently slim down.


Protecting against malnutrition along with dehydration are generally your current most crucial components through your first 3 months.


During your pregnancy, you have to eat close to three hundred calories more than typical every single day. The easiest method to start carrying this out is actually hearing the body when you're starving. You should attempt to consume as numerous meals as you possibly can in the base from the food pyramid.


In case you gain pounds way too slower, try out having smaller food along with extra fat in what you eat. It is wise to take when you find yourself eager, because you are now eating for two instead of one.

Calcium

From the next trimester, you may need about 1, 500 milligrams of calcium mineral daily to your our bones and also the baby', which can be higher than a quart regarding dairy. Calcium mineral will be one thing which is absent coming from several eating plans. In addition to dairy, some other fantastic options contain calcium mineral such as dairy food, calcium mineral fortified fruit drinks, and also calcium mineral capsules.

Fiber

Soluble fiber can help stop constipation, which can be a standard having a baby difficulty. You will find soluble fiber inside complete grains, many fruits, and also greens. Soluble fiber health supplements for instance Metamucil and also Citrucel are usually risk-free to use during pregnancy.

Protein

Unless of course that you are the rigid vegetarian, your own
proteins consumption isn't usually an issue for females
who follow balanced and healthy diet.

Iron

Women begins their pregnancy off with a bit of iron lack. Good sources of iron include dark leafy vegetables and meats. Iron supplements should be avoided, as they can cause internal symptoms such as cramps, constipation, or diarrhea.

Vitamins

Since the way you obtain most the actual nutritional vitamins a person require in what you eat, you might want to talk about prenatal nutritional vitamins together with your physician. Folate is among the majority of essential, as well as if you're obtaining sufficient from it, you could be able to skip nutritional vitamins altogether, simply request your physician to ensure.

Finally, you should ask your gynecologist for more information and surly she/he will choose the best for you.

The Cost of Abortion Pills

Aborting a pregnancy using pills is a classified medical abortion. Pills should be taken during nine weeks of pregnancy period. You can find out about those pills by any clinic or health center or a private health care provider. You will read more about the cost of the abortion, especially mentioning the abortion pills cost.

RU - 486

This is also called the Mifepristone, this pill is a synthetic steroid compound. During the first 8 weeks of the pregnancy, it can be used to abort the pregnancy. Anyway, those pills are usually used in smaller amounts, to prevent pregnancy, in emergency. For abortion, first, the pregnant given either Mifepristone or Methotrexate. Few days later, it doesn't matter which of the previous drugs has been taken first, Misoprostol is taken.  The cost of this pill is equal to the cost of the surgical abortion. It usually costs: 300 - 500 Dollars or probably more, that's only the pill’s cost, also there are many other fees such as clinic, sliding and other medications fees. This is the abortion pill cost across the United States.

The high cost of the abortion is not only financially, there are psychological costs for women who pay to abortion, a destructive Psychological and physical costs which deeply affect in women. For those females who aborted their pregnancy because of their communities pressure, it will be a big shock for them and they will feel guilty!

Abortion in Bible

What do Christians think about abortion? How are you going to reply to those who aren't Christians about something you believe in? The Holy Book has a lot to tell about those subjects: life, death and pregnancy. Here are few parts of the Holy Book to understand the Christians view about abortion.

Many Christians believe that abortion is wrong, because it is “killing an innocent soul”. Those who argue the point of conception and say that the fetus is not a real human being, human life begins at the first moment of the conception, and everyone knows what does the Holy Book say about taking another person's life. Believing that abortion is wrong, depends on whether or not you believe aborting an unborn child is killing.

Genesis 9:5 – “Murder is forbidden.”

When does the life begin?

A Christian's view about the beginning of the life depends on whether or not he or she believes abortion is wrong. The controversy between people who agree with abortion and those who disagree with it is the beginning of life. Many Christians believe that the human life begins at the moment of the meeting between a sperm and an oocyte, while others think that the life begins when the heart starts beating. The holy Book says that God knew us before we were placed in our mother's womb, thus many Christians use that as an evidence, to prove that abortion is forbidden.

Psalm 51:5 – “I was born a sinner – yes, from the moment my mother conceived me.”

Jeremiah 1:5 – “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.”

Who owns your body?

People who agree with abortion think that they have the full control of their bodies. However, The Holy Book says that God has the final decision. He controls your body because your body is the house of God. Others say that God gave us the full-freedom of deciding what happens to our bodies. Anyway, full-freedom doesn't mean that we don't sin. Either if you agree or disagree with abortion, it is still biblical to take care of our bodies.

Corinthians 6:12-13 – “You may say ‘I am allowed to do anything.’ But I reply, ‘Not everything is good for you.’ And even though ‘I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything…But our bodies were not made for sexual immorality. They were made for the Lord, and the Lord cares about our bodies.”

Corinthians 3:16-17 – “Don’t you realize that all of you together are the Temple of God and that the Spirit of God lives in you. God will bring ruin to anyone who ruins this temple. For God’s temple is holy, and you Christians are that temple.”

Forgiveness

Every conversation about abortion must discuss the forgiveness. All sins are forgiven by God. Either if you performed an abortion before or you know someone planning to abort a pregnancy, there's a chance for forgiveness. The Holy Book says that God will forgive sin, Jesus Christ, The Son of God, had been sent to die for our sins.

John 1-9 – “If we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong.”

Isaiah 1:18 – “No matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can remove it. I can make you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can make you as white as sand.”

Ambiguities

Such as many other topics that lead to long argument in Christianity, abortion is one of those topics which make us shake our heads and wonder. What if the pregnancy threats the mother's life? What if the baby is totally deformed, and maybe will not live more than few days? That's why deciding to have an abortion or not is not always easy. Even those who agree with abortion don't really support abortion; only support the women right to choose.

Abortion has effects, either if you think it is a sin or not. Not too many women who performed an abortion did so accidentally. Pregnancy comes with a mental state that would be difficult to deal with after aborting the pregnancy; pregnant teenagers will be having more stress. In many communities, aborting a pregnancy is legal; it is something we should think about very carefully.

Discussing abortion with people around you doesn't make it easy to understand too.  If you are a Christian thinking about abortion, then you should talk to a Christian psychiatrist, tell him about your feelings, what are the reasons which make you think about abortion, and ask about things you can do instead of this.

At the same time, it is good to know that, even if you have had an abortion before, and you feel that you are guilty, you can ask for forgiveness. God always provide us forgiveness even before we forgive ourselves. You must know that God is with you, all what you have to do is listening to what He says. God Loves You.

Either if you agree or disagree with abortion, it is your choice, but as long as you are Christian, make sure you stand with God when choosing.

Stay Safe During Your Pregnancy

Many Pregnancy exercises can help prepare your body for the birth of your baby by targeting specific muscles used during labor and to avoid losing your baby. Regular physical exercise can help build strength and stamina. It also makes it easier to recover after birth.
Stay healthy during your pregnancy. Good nutrition is a major factor of healthy born baby and also for a mom. Great high-protein food sources include meats, soy products, eggs, dairy, nuts, beans and seeds. You should also be eating five servings of high-complex carbohydrates to ensure adequate calories for energy, as well as an additional source of protein.

Most women can continue working during pregnancy. Being pregnant, however, might present challenges at the workplace. To stay healthy and productive on the job, understand how to alleviate common pregnancy discomforts — and know when work tasks might jeopardize your pregnancy.
Aim for seven to nine hours of sleep every night. Resting on your side will improve blood flow to your baby and help prevent swelling. For added comfort, place pillows between your legs and under your belly.

Have You Killed Your Baby ?

Thousands years ago, males and females were looking for ways to get rid of their unwanted children in that period of time while the fetus still in the womb, and since thousands years there have been some good people who were thinking it is a huge mistake to kill your child who didn't come to the life yet. 
Maybe some will think that only religious people didn't agree with it, but it wasn't only religious people. There was a physician living  in Greece, his name is Hippocrates, a person who didn't live in a religious period. He condemned this immoral practice, because this unborn child is still a child who deserves life and shouldn't be killed.
Killing of unborn babies became known in countries calling themselves developed countries, thousands of unborn children being killed under the name that a mother should have the right to decide.
Killing of unborn babies became known in countries calling themselves developed countries, thousands of unborn children being killed under the name that a female has right to choose! 
A female has the right to choose not to have a children but how many unborn children should be killed to satisfy her choice ? Many ways were made to make the female avoid pregnancy.
When a female thinks that she has lost her right to choose is when she gets pregnant, because then she will not be dealing with a semen and egg, actually she will be dealing with a life. If she aborted her pregnancy, she will be a murder and even if the law may do nothing to her now, one day she will stand in front of the God and have to explain to Him why she killed an innocent soul.
Since the abortion became legal, statistics show that there are more than 25 million babies who have been murdered only in America , and also more than 1.5 billion abortions performed around the world 1970. The funny sad thing is that those who agree with abortion, have no idea what they agree with ! 
The most used way to abort a pregnancy is vacuum aspiration, this way is used in the first 3 months of the baby's growth. Vacuum aspiration uses a pipe connected to a vacuum machine, they put the pipe inside the pregnant's womb and the vacuum aspiration power rips the fetus's parts and starts to suck them out .
Another way used in the first three months of the pregnancy, in this way they use a knife to cut the connected parts of the fetus to the pregnant, the fetus being cut into parts and the head being smashed so they can move him out through the opening of the womb.
There's also another way being used in three and five months of the pregnancy, two tongs are inserted to the womb and the baby's body being ripped, and then they take the parts out through the birth canal, they collect the parts together to make sure that nothing's left inside .
Another way like a slow death, this way cause a slowly painful death because of the bleeding, shock and burning of the baby's body cells. They inject a salt solution into the amniotic bag, this solution is breathed by the baby and leads to end his life !
There are two more ways of abortion performed after the sixth month of the pregnancy . The first way is when the baby comes to the world through a surgery, he is taken out from the womb and they put him by himself to die alone because of the disregard. The other is when the child is born without a surgery, and when the head's time to come out they make an opening in his head then they use a vacuum aspiration machine to remove his brain!
How come that people support things like this ! Seriously I don't know if there's a female who would do something like this to someone from her flesh and her blood! 
Abortion is a crime according to the law of God, and as long as it is a crime and huge sin, the law of God puts a solution to this. if you are a female who performed an abortion before, probably you didn't know the affects of what you have chosen to perform, God wants you to know that whatever you did, He will forgive and free you. Jesus Christ The Son of God, he will give you complete forgiveness, ask Him you will not regret so. God is the only one who can help you with this .
Females who performed abortion many times, and many women did, they feel deeply pain inside their hearts. No matter how many times you have had an abortion, you know now it is a crime and killing for an innocent souls, stop and ask God to help you and forgive you,and surely He will!
If you are thinking about abortion as a solution to the unwanted child, don't do it ! there're a lot of people who want to adopt a child, so instead of killing an innocent soul you can give the baby to them to adopt it, and instead of having psychological pain you will be helping others who can't have a baby because of many reasons such as impotence .
Stop killing innocent souls ! you can give them to those who can't have a child ! for God sake and for your own heart sake , don't kill your baby !

Adoption Vs Abortion Vs Parenting

Getting pregnant at an unplanned time can be very difficult and scary, and deciding what to do could be much harder. The most important thing to remember is that you have a choice. Every woman does! There are three main options: parenting, abortion or adoption. There are no similarities between parenting and abortion. One important similarity between adoption and parenting is that you can give life to your child and watch your child grow up. If a woman chose to adopt her baby, she may feel guilt and shame about her choice. She will miss the opportunity to see her child growing up. Abortion is final! She can’t go back on her decision. There is no cost to you if you choose adoption. In fact, pregnancy-related expenses are paid for by the adoptive family, which often include medical care and living expenses. You will be able to speak with your adoption specialist about your specific needs. If you chose to abort, depending on how far along you are in the pregnancy, the cost will range from $500-$2,000 for an abortion. There may also be additional charges for ultrasound, the "morning-after" pill, birth control and further medical treatment. Parenting is the most expensive option. Total cost to parent a child ranges from $500-$2,000 monthly. A parent must also budget for shelter, food, transportation, and utilities to raise their child. It’s all about your choice, your life, your baby and your future.

Ten Arguments Against Abortion

1- As long as life begins when a female is pregnant, abortion is like murdering because you are ending someone's life. Abortion is against the commonly idea which is the  importance of the human soul and its sanctity.
2- There's no developed community that allows any person to deliberately harm or murder someone without a penalty, and abortion is like murdering, because you are killing.
3- Adoption is a possible substitute to abortion. there's a million and a half families in United States who want to adopt a child, there's no better solution than giving them the unwanted child.
4- Abortion may leads to medical aggravations later in life, the dangerous of ectopic pregnancies multiplies, and the probabilities of a miscarriage and pelvic inflammatory disease also rise up.
5- In case of the rape and incest , suitable medical care can guarantee that a female will not get pregnant. Abortion punishes innocent soul, who committed no crime, the one who should be punished is the one who did this crime 
6- Terminating the pregnancy is not a form of prevent pregnancy ! 
7- For females who request full rule of their body, ruling their bodies must allow avoiding the possibilities of unwanted pregnancy, by using pregnancy preventing methods, or, if that's not possible, you can stop unwanted pregnancy by avoiding sex! 
8- A lot of people who pay taxes in United States against abortion, so it's a moral mistake to use tax money to pay for abortion!
9- Those who decide to abort their pregnancy are usually under maturity age, or immature women with lack in life knowledge to get the real idea about what they are doing. many of them regret all their lives after that.
10-The worst abortion results are the psychological pain and stress.

Teenagers and Survivors

A teen considering abortion is influenced by many factors:
• Where she lives.
• Her religious beliefs.
• Her relationship with her parents.
• Her access to family planning services.
• The behavior of her peer group.
• Her educational level and socioeconomic status also plays a role.
• Desire of not changing their lives by the birth of a baby.
• Her inability to afford a baby.
• Her feeling of immaturity or responsibility to raise a child.
Teen abortion has many risks. Studies have proven that abortion may lead to an increased chance of breast cancer, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, depression, and the contraction of Viral Hepatitis, not to mention death due to excessive bleeding or other complications. Whether you choose to keep your baby, put it up for adoption or have an abortion, hormones run crazy when you are pregnant. Hormones are to blame for the drastic mood swings pregnant women have during pregnancy. As you feel the life inside you start to grow, you will become attached to, or perhaps even angry at, this new life. This life is exactly that - he or she is alive and it is a part of you.
who are the abortion survivors?
1- Attempted abortion survivors: These are people who survived an actual abortion attempt. In other words, the abortion failed to kill them.
2- Twin abortion survivors: These are people whose twin was aborted but they themselves survived.
3- Sibling abortion survivors: These are people born into families where a brother or sister was aborted.

Abortion Pills Side Effects

Women should consider abortion pills side effects before deciding to terminate the life of their child. A medical abortion consists of taking two pills that have been approved by the FDA. The first drug blocks the hormone progesterone so the uterus lining begins to shed. The cervix begins to soften and bleeding begins. Within 24 to 72 hours after taking the first pill the patient will take the second one. The second medication causes the uterus to contract which leads to the pregnancy being expelled. Clinics will not always be forthcoming about abortion pill side effects to their patients because they are making money off of the death of an unborn baby. These pills can have such a devastating effect on a woman's body that she may not be able to carry another child to term if at all.
Health risks that could prevent a patient from being a candidate for a medical abortion include severe anemia or blood clotting problems. Adrenal failures, severe diarrhea, possibility of an ectopic pregnancy or a mass in the reproductive organs are all major concerns for having the procedure.
Primarily the first pill that a woman takes doesn’t cause problems except for bleeding. However, the second pill can cause headache, dizziness, back pain, tiredness, nausea, heavy cramping, diarrhea, and vomiting. In some cases, bleeding can become so great that the patient will have to pass for the vacuum.
This is one of many true stories for women who used abortion pills.
Marie Patterson went to a clinic to quietly consider ways to handle life change she wasn’t ready for. This 18 years old lady, died after one week after she took the abortion pill.
Marie visited a clinic to take the pill. She followed the prescribed procedure for using RU-486, taking two more pills at home in the following days.
After experiencing bleeding and cramps so severe that she wasn’t able o walk, her boyfriend rushed her to the hospital, where she was given painkillers and sent home. She was back in the hospital a few days later and died. (After 7 days from starting the pills).
Her father said that he know from an attending physician at the hospital that she had died after a massive infection caused by fragments of the fetus left inside her uterus which caused her to go into septic shock.
Mr. Patterson felt so guilty and hoped that this tragedy will encourage other women considering abortion to seek support, especially from their families.

Kate’s Testimonial After Abortion.

Kate had an abortion because her father didn’t give her another choice and she couldn’t seek help from anyone because she and her baby were an embarrassment to her father and his reputation. Her father and mother drove her to the clinic and her father made her boyfriend’s parents pay for the procedure. Her father refused to pay and waited for her in the car while her mother accompanied her to the clinic. She couldn’t say a word during the quick counseling session prior to the procedure so that would go against her father’s decision for her unborn child. Then she was off to the ultrasound room to see the baby. That is where she found out that the baby that she had been starting to feel move around inside her was a boy (Michael). Then she was off to the procedure room with her mom. She held her hand through the awful vacuum procedure. She cried and screamed. It was so much pain and the noise of the vacuum was so overbearing. The doctor didn’t have the courtesy to remove the vacuum container that was holding her son prior to telling her to sit up. She saw him in the vacuum container. Kate couldn’t even describe the pain of seeing him. Then she went to the recuperation room to lie down on the one bed. There were two other girls there, sitting in chairs. They were discussing how many abortions they have had. She just rolled toward the wall and cried. 




She got into the car after a half-hour of rest after the procedure, and she remembers the first thing that her father said, with anger. He kept telling her, “Don’t cry over this and do not speak of it again.” And she didn’t for many, many years; even though it was eating her up inside. Her life got out of control for years and years afterwards. She never had a boyfriend that treated her well because she didn’t like herself. She got stage four endometriosis due to the abortion and the emotional trauma of it. She thought she was being punished by God, but what she has learned is that endometriosis is a consequence of the abortion, not a punishment from God. She suffered from depression, self-hatred, and infertility. She got married. Her diagnosed endometriosis and infertility were horrible for her husband and she had to deal with. Kate thinks that there is no much more to tell, but she sees her space is almost filled up. She has been blessed by God with three beautiful kids, and her son is her testimony from God. God is a healer! Abortion is devastating!

Abortion Effects on Males

Males who feel psychological pain after aborting their child can't often get the point . They often don't realize the relation between the abortion in the past, and their present subjective battle.
YOU could be one of those males who are suffering because of this ?
Some males are suffering this strong clash , nonetheless this archenemy is hard to define or beat it .
A lot of males decide at last to tell others about the experienced pain they suffered , because of their previous abortion decision . You aren't by yourself .
Just after a female has performed an abortion, she will suffer the strenuous painful results for the rest of her life. On the other hand, females aren't the only ones who will suffer from post-abortion pains. Dr. Richard Epstein [ A psychiatrist ] he said literally : " a man may feel deeply rejected by the destruction of the most important thing he can give to the woman he loves, if so , he may undergo a profound depression".
How do you recognize that you are suffering ?



Post-abortion stress in males : 
- Increasing in tantrums, feeling worried and tensions.
- Home-violence rate will increase
- Unhappiness feeling.
- Having bad ideas such as self-harming ideas, and those thoughts may  lead the person to multi-ways to hurt himself such as : suicide or getting addicted to drugs or alcohol.
- Failing to bonding or committing to the present partner , or any other partner in the future.
- Feeling weakness and losing trust in theirselves.
- Feeling guilty and shame.
- Inability to trust females .
- Having fear of everything .
- Sexual weakness , including losing ability to have children [ impotence ]
Do you notice any of the previous symptoms on yourself ? If you do , then you may have the advantage for a post-abortion healing program for males , that can aid you realizing and working through your subjective battle. You can beat all of these painful and injurious behaviors, and get acceptance, forgiveness and aiding.

After Abortion

Uterine massage might be sometimes necessary to decrease cramping.
 To perform uterine massage, use the heel of your hand and push inward firmly on your abdomen while rubbing in a downward motion, from your navel to your pubic hair line. The purpose of uterine massage is to stimulate your uterus to contract back to its pre-pregnant size, thus causing bleeding and possibly clots, which your body needs to pass to stop the cramping. 
Take your temperature every day for the next 7 days; a fever may be an indication that you are developing an infection. Call the doctor if your temperature goes above 85 degrees.


Use maxi pads until your next period, and monitor how much you are bleeding. If you experience heavy bleeding call the doctor.
Take all of your prescribed medications as instructed. 
Return to the Clinic or see your referring gynecologist for a checkup 2 to 3 weeks following your abortion, even if you are still bleeding. 
After an abortion, your cervix may be open for a period of time; generally 1 week for first trimester abortions and two weeks for 2nd trimester.
To reduce the risk of infection:
- Do not use tampons until your next period (in 4-8 weeks). 
- Do not douche, have intercourse, or put anything into your vagina for 1-2 weeks, as specified. 
- Do not take a tub bath or go swimming for 1-2 weeks, as specified. You may shower or kneel down in a bath tub and sponge off. 
- Avoid strenuous exercise (aerobics, running) and heavy lifting (over 15 pounds) for 1-2 weeks, as specified. 
- Avoid aspirin, alcohol and marijuana. These may cause heavier bleeding.

Abortion in the United States

80% of abortion occurs in the developing countries and 20% in developed countries.
The number of abortion per year worldwide is approximately 45 million, which means that the number of abortion per day is approximately 120,000.
Number of abortions per year in the United States is 1.7 Million.
Number of abortions per day is approximately 4000
52% of women obtaining abortions in the U.S. are younger than 25
 Women aged 20-24 obtain 31% of all abortions.
Teenagers obtain 16%
 Girls under 15 accounts for 1%. 
White women obtain 60% of all abortions.
Black women are more than 3 times as likely as white women to have an abortion.
Hispanic women are roughly 2 times as likely. 
66% of all abortions are performed unmarried women.
Married women account for 20% of all abortions.
Divorced women obtain 14%.
1% of all abortions occur because of rape or incest.
 11% of abortions occur because of potential health problems regarding either the mother or child.
 88% of all abortions occur for social reasons.

How Abortion works?

There are two methods for abortion, depending on the stage of pregnancy:

1-Medical Abortions: This kind of abortions uses medicines if the period does not pass the 7 weeks. Depending on each case, a woman needs a single pill or many. 


2-Surgical Abortion: This method is used when a woman has passed the 7 weeks of pregnancy, they remove all the pregnancy tissue, it could be made by a manual vacuum aspiration (operated by a machine that aspires the fetus from the vagina), or a dilation which is necessary in the second trimester or if the tissue wasn’t 100% clear after the vacuum. 
The following picture describe how the surgical abortion accomplish :

1- Amniotic sac

2- Embryo

3- Uterine lining

4- Speculum

5- Vacurette

6- The vacurette is attached to a suction pump

When abortion is accomplished, it is necessary to give the woman antibiotics to avoid infections.

Unfortunately, you must know that in few cases, during the abortion (vacuum), the machine might tear the fetus's limbs apart in the process.

Watch out women! This process is harmful for your health first; sometimes you’re not able to get pregnant again !

Before making sex, prevent abortion

If the couple knows that they don’t want the pregnancy to occur, the first way to avoid abortion begins with a safe sexual relation which is called the contraceptive method (when men use a condom or women take pills). The first reason behind the abortion is the contraceptive failure.

Being contraceptive = No AIDS = No Abortion

Second, young people must be provided with education and information, and they must know that getting pregnant is not a passing thing which can be solved by pills or by a small operation, they should also know they this act is forcing them to kill an innocent soul.

Third, it is related to men involvement. When a woman gets pregnant she’s not the only one who creates it, it’s a sharing between a man and a woman. They both have equal responsibilities and decision toward getting pregnant or not, if not they should both or at least one use the contraceptive method.

The way to prevent abortion is not to make it illegal. Many years ago, abortion was legal but many women were down or died or head some chronicle diseases. 

Common Reasons for Abortion

The most common reasons and causes of abortion are summarized as follow:
- Abnormality in the fetus form: abortion often occurs in the first three months of pregnancy because the fetus is abnormal. It was found that more than half of abortions are due to genetic problems in the fetus and age ( when a woman is more than 35 years) :


- Diseases and birth defects in the genital tract of the mother: for example, cervical muscle weakness, and abnormal growth of the placenta .
- Severe infections: such as Mycoplasma, blood infection, German measles .
- Chronic disease with the mother: it includes diabetes, a rise in blood pressure, secretion. Therefore, it is suggested to consider a medical care for women and a control before pregnancy .
- Other factors: some medicines, alcohol, drugs .


And sure without forgetting that sometimes there are no factors or causes for abortion, but many times women have a sexual relation and get pregnant in an unwanted time and decide not to keep the baby, so they kill him !

Abortion Leads to Depression

Abortion affects women much more deeply than they think. It makes women dissatisfied. It makes them give up and sometimes refuse the idea of continuing their lives. Some women visit a psychologist after abortion and in some cases few women suicide. 
Beside all this, we find their ability to make dangerous activities such as drinking too much alcohol or taking drugs which lead them to addiction.
Their unstable situation interrupts their daily activities such as work, house duties, social life. Some women get the desire of getting pregnant immediately to replace the baby that they lost with another one, and others get frustrated from continuing their relationship or even getting a new one.

Isolation and depression are other symptoms of abortion. Some women stay in their rooms or house and refuse to talk to someone or socialize for a long time. They get nightmares, bad ideas such as (suicide, hurting themselves ... etc). In some cases, they become attached to every single baby they see, whether they know him or not.

Women!! Stay apart and save your life, you’re harming your health, destroying your future and killing an innocent soul, and maybe ending your life!!

Christian or Muslim, save your soul !

All religions have strong positions on abortion. They believe that the issue of life or death is a major religious concern no matter what the reasons are. As we have mentioned in previous articles, women who make abortion are not only affected physically and emotionally, but also spiritually as well. Therefore, I’m going to publish the Christians and Islam’s point of view concerning this act.

Christianity

The Church says that human life begins when the woman's egg is fertilised by a male sperm. From that moment a unique life begins, independent of the life of the mother and father. Each new life that begins at this point is not a potential human being but a human being with potential.

The church never facilitates this act; it condemns it and totally refuses it. Abortion is absolutely forbidden.

God treats a fetus in the womb as a living person.

God says murder is sin. (Abortion kills the fetus.) 

God calls us to protect the defenseless, including children.

Although abortion is a deadly sinner, God is always present to forgive those who made abortion when they ask for forgiveness.

Islam

Every human being born or not is sacred in Muslims; as they have clearly stated the right of a fetus, but many Muslims’ schools consider that there might some exceptional cases such as:

- Continuous pregnancy might put the mother’s life in a danger

- Abnormality in the pregnancy

- Abortion must occur in the first 12 weeks of  pregnancy 

The Qur’an says: “Whosoever has spared the life of a soul, it is as though he has spared the life of all people. Whosoever has killed a soul, it is as though he has murdered all of mankind.”

In Conclusion, Abortion is against humanity, Christians, Muslims, and most important GOD. So think twice before making any act that may ham your religion and especially your soul.

Negative Effects of Abortion

Abortion affects women physically, emotionally, and spiritually:

- When an abortion is performed on a woman, she becomes subject to many physical complications. Blood loss during the procedure causes diversion of blood flow to various organs and can result in shock. When the canal of the cervix is dilated, the insides of the uterus, fallopian tubes, and the abdominal cavity are exposed to invasion by bacteria. Abdominal infection can cause peritonitis and abscess formation. Severe hemorrhage often follows an abortion. Instruments can perforate the uterus causing injury, infection, and bleeding to internal organs. Heavy bleeding might sometimes cause death.

- Not only do these women bear physical side effects, but they also suffer many emotional side effects. Among these are depression, long-term grief reactions, anger, sexual dysfunction, guilt, flashbacks, memory repression, suicidal ideas, and difficulty keeping close relationships. Of two hundred and sixty women surveyed in the United States, over sixty percent said their abortion made their life worse.

- It is not normal for a woman to kill her child.   One of the major effects of having an abortion is guilt.  The mother who has aborted her child will at times feel intense guilt for destroying her child's life.   In the Bible, God gave mankind the Fifth Commandment. Whenever anyone breaks a commandment they will feel guilt and sorrow for the evil they have done.  The Catholic Church teaches that if a woman has an abortion she has committed a mortal sin.  Any mortal sin separates us from God and the penalty for mortal sin is hell.